by tomburton | Jul 16, 2019 | Info Articles
Life has its ups and downs. However, there are times when our thinking and functioning are deeply impaired – and when this happens, it’s important to look for a deeper cause. Many of us show the telltale symptoms of depression, including a pervasively negative view of...
by tomburton | Jun 26, 2019 | Info Articles
As warmer weather arrives, you may be looking forward to enjoying your favorite outdoor activities. Whether you love to bike, hike, swim, surf or simply enjoy long walks in your neighbourhood, research shows you’re doing something wonderful for your body, mind, and...
by tomburton | Jun 16, 2019 | Info Articles
When we’re on our own, it’s easy to fantasize about how much better life will be once we find the perfect mate. We imagine romantic times together, sex anytime we want it, and the comfort of having that special someone who offers support whenever we need...
by tomburton | May 28, 2019 | Uncategorized
I find that musicians have their own unique set of challenges. Musicians are often shamed into keeping quiet about their own issues such as performance anxiety and depression. They exist in a culture where people don’t ask for help and where they learn to adapt by...
by tomburton | May 24, 2019 | Info Articles
Anxiety is a part of everyday life. We feel it, and usually, with time, we are able to dismiss it. But for many, anxious thoughts are a constant presence that blocks calm thinking and healthful functioning. As a counsellor working with many kinds of people living in...
by tomburton | May 14, 2019 | Info Articles
If you’re a human being and you love someone, you will feel angry from time to time. Anger and frustration are natural feelings that come and go in any close relationship. The goal for loving couples is not to turn away from differences, but to address them in a way...
by tomburton | Apr 6, 2019 | Uncategorized
Most musicians grow up as perfectionists having to be better all the time. Living in a competitive environment, musicians are driven to play and create music as if their survival depends on it. It’s all about performance. This promotes normal stress and anxiety. I...
by tomburton | Mar 27, 2019 | Uncategorized
Counselling for Musicians! My new speciality -Coming soon! I have been a musician for over 40 years. I have a lot to offer as I combine my music and psychotherapy experiences together. I will offer coaching and therapy for bands and ensembles. I will work with issues...
by tomburton | Mar 27, 2019 | Uncategorized
Just got back from Montpellier, France where I presented a workshop with my partner, Dr. Valerie Sim at the Integrative psychotherapy conference on “Loss, loneliness, and the brain”. A combination of psychotherapy and science. Teaching about what happens in the brain...
by tomburton | Jan 4, 2019 | Uncategorized
Traditionally, men are brought up to be strong and are encouraged to put up a wall around any sign of vulnerability. When men are unable to maintain this façade, they often feel bad, they shut down, and they hide their feelings. This can lead to defensive responses...
